Wash and dry the okra.Top, tail, and slice okra into 2–3 cm pieces. Slice onions. Heat ½ cup ghee in a wok on medium‑hot.
Throw in the okra and onions and stir to coat everything in the ghee.
Fry until the onions and bhindi start to brown and then remove and set aside.
In the same pan add in some more ghee or butter.
Add spices and temper for 10–15 seconds until fragrant.
.Add in the tomatoes and and fry together with the spices until the oil separates.
Add in chopped chillies.
Add in the yogurt, stir in and turn the heat down to medium.
Now add back in the onions and orka, cover and cook on medium / low for 30 minutes.
Enjoy with Chapatti or naan.